Out Growing People

Dear Reader,

The biggest lesson I’m learning that is hard to swallow is that you will outgrow people and people will outgrow you.

There are 2 ways you can look at this:

1. Be upset that you no longer have that close connection with those people. Be annoyed that they just don’t fit into your life anymore. Be frustrated that you spent time and energy investing in a friendship that no longer exists.

2. Be excited because that means you will meet new people who connect with your new, grown self. Be happy that you had beautiful friendships and have the opportunity and capacity to create more friendships now.

I’m still trying always to be looking at it from the second perspective but sometimes I still fall short and have negative emotions about it all.

All my love,

Kaila 💌